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Ayesha Curry says mom guilt is real — but so is her need to keep her own identity

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Ayesha Curry, who has four kids with her husband NBA player Stephen Curry, says she experiences mom guilt.

  • Ayesha Curry says she feels mom guilt but doesn’t want motherhood to be her whole identity.
  • It’s always been “important” for her to explore the different sides of herself, Curry said.
  • Despite her entrepreneurial success, she says women are rarely celebrated for their versatility the same way men are.

Four kids later, and Ayesha Curry says she still feels mom guilt.

During an appearance on Wednesday’s episode of “Call Her Daddy,” Curry said she doesn’t want motherhood to define her whole identity.

“I still experience that. I’m almost always in therapy talking about this,” Curry told podcast host Alex Cooper about dealing with mom guilt.

“Like, for me, being married and with my husband, if you lose all of those things that were interesting about you, even for yourself, even the things that made me feel confident and cool, then like, what are you doing?” Curry said.

As a creative person, Curry said it’s always been “important” for her to explore the different sides of herself.

“It keeps me who I am to my family and the people that I love. But it also allows me to have a certain level of confidence that I don’t think I would have otherwise,” she said.

Curry is the founder and CEO of Sweet July, a lifestyle and wellness brand. She is also a restaurateur, a television host, and the author of two cookbooks.

Despite her success across different industries, Curry says women are rarely celebrated for their versatility the way men are.

“When men do it, they’re like, ‘Oh my god, you’re so multifaceted. Wow, what a renaissance man.’ And I’m like, ‘Why can’t women do the same thing?'” Curry said. “What is giving you the ick so bad that you feel like I can’t do these separate things, be good at them, or at least try to?”

A representative for Curry did not immediately respond to a request for comment sent by Business Insider outside regular hours.

Curry is not alone. Many female celebrities are opening up about balancing motherhood with their ambitions and dealing with mom guilt.

In a March 2024 episode of “The View,” Whoopi Goldberg said she chose her career over her child.

“My kid came before my career, and I chose my career because I knew this would never happen again,” Goldberg said.

In August 2024, Halle Berry said she has “aspirations outside of being a mother.”

“Before I was a mom, I was me, and I try to stay connected to that so that my life doesn’t turn into ‘I’m only a mom,'” Berry said.

Earlier this month, Keke Palmer said she doesn’t think women should feel mom guilt for working “in this economy.”

“But the reality is, if you got to work, you got to work,” Palmer said.

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Duolingo’s top social media manager says she had more professional success when she didn’t separate life and work

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Duolingo’s top social media manager talked about her anxiety and work life balance.

  • Duolingo’s social media manager says she found more success when she did not separate life and work.
  • Parvez said that running such a big account has given her anxiety.
  • Duolingo’s viral marketing, known for its edgy green owl mascot, effectively targeted Gen Z.

The face behind Duolingo’s blockbuster marketing campaigns said virality comes with a human cost.

Zaria Parvez, who announced her departure from her role as senior global social media manager to pursue another social media role, said her best work came when she put work-life balance aside.

“There was a lot of, ‘I’m not gonna check Slack after 5. I’m going to actually work a 40-hour week,'” she said in an interview with The Wall Street Journal published on Wednesday. “But I will say, when I didn’t separate my life from my work, I succeeded far more in my role. That’s a hard truth.”

The language learning app is famous for its creative and guilt-inducing app notifications and social media posts. Marketing experts say the approach works, especially with Gen Z, because the app’s green owl mascot appears authentic and consistent. Whether it’s on TV, in YouTube ads, or on TikTok, where Duolingo has over 16.7 million followers, the company is among the first to tap into viral, often country-specific trends.

The 26-year-old marketing manager, who has been at the company for five years, also said she dealt with anxiety because she ran such a successful social media account.

“Last year when I went on medical leave. I was really confused and exhausted,” Parvez said. “It got to the point where the anxiety of running such a big account and having to be always on was so on my shoulders.”

She added: “I would get three hours of sleep at night. I would be incessantly trying to figure out, how do I be creative in all the best ways? How do I do this on my own?”

She said that her family paid attention to her career, too.

Last year, for a marketing stunt, Duolingo faked the death of its green owl mascot. It blew up and received lots of organic engagement from Duolingo users, celebrities like MrBeast and Dua Lipa, and brands such as Hilton, Chipotle, and Netflix. Parvez said that one campaign brought in 1.7 billion social media impressions.

“People thought Duolingo the company had died,” Parvez said. “My mom’s like, did you lose your job?”

Not all of Duolingo’s messaging has gotten the same stamp of approval from the internet.

Parvez shared a 2021 instance during the Johnny Depp-Amber Heard trial when Duolingo commented on a TikTok post, and it was not received well by Twitter users.

Earlier this month, Duolingo CEO Luis von Ahn said the company had dialed back on “edgy posts” after his post on mandatory internal AI usage received harsh social media backlash.

The Duolingo CEO said that “stopping edgy posts” helped turn social media sentiment positive. But he said the move may also have hurt the company’s daily active user count, one of its most important metrics, in the quarter that ended in June.

Duolingo’s stock is up 61% in the last year.

Duolingo and Parvez did not immediately respond to requests for comment.

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